“What’s in it for me?” is a question I’m learning to avoid.

I find that I usually don’t really like the answer, it’s never enough, it’s the wrong color or some other reason to find fault. 

If I ask this question I really don’t want to participate anyway. It’s just a dishonest way of finding a reason to say no.

When I do something because it’s the right thing to do and it benefits others I get more that I could have asked for.